it's jus one of those things...

are there times that u feel nobody understands u or mayb even better, u dun even understand urself?
i'm sure dere r moments like these...
how does one handle it den? run away, suppress, tink abt it or talk abt it?
human relations is a complicated topic. i have come to realise dat often, it is not easy to understand the other gender. n i believe vice versa.

y & how so? i'm not too sure myself. however, i do find myself constantly trying to comprehend the minds of others so much so dat my thots become so complicated somehow.
sometimes unnecessary but sometimes important.
are there issues dat u feel u cant talk abt openly? how does one find the courage to speak up den?
isnt communication the essence to the flow of a good relationship/friendship?

talk abt being understanding, it obviously teams itself up with patience.
doesnt everyone have a limit to that? dere r sometimes dat i jus dun want to bother bcos it wears me out. i get frustrated at the idea that i may be the only person affected by certain feelings/thots.

sometimes u miss someone, sometimes u dun.
love is important.. but doesnt love exist between friends and family?
so wad makes love between a guy & a girl special or different?
it's pretty cliche how anniversary cards or those 'to someone special cards' express so much abt feelings.. special? who is special? r we sure we noe wad special means?

the expression of oneself.
some i noe write songs, some take time alone to tink, some talk to many pple & share their idealogies/emotions, some choose not to bother and some, perhaps dun even care.
r there actually pple who r "heartless" or "conscienceless"? i tink there are.
however i do noe of someone who seems to care endlessly somehow & isnt afraid of letting u noe dat fact.

boys/guys/men/old men... how do we girls understand the way they behave or tink?
isnt dere gonna be some kind of devine intervention?
or is God the only "being" that understands both men and women?

wad is important in a relationship that exists between a guy & girl today?
the sharing of feelings & emotions (communication), pure companionship, physical intimacy like sex, or the thot that there mite b a bright & long future ahead between the couple (everlasting love)?

seems like most youngsters have twisted & deranged minds these days.
some get hurt alot by love, some seek pleasure & comfort in love, some seek fun & companionship and some jus dun need it.
sometimes i jus wonder... y cant relationships of today be simpler than wad it is..?
does it need to be complicated & twisted? the whole idea of courtship is fun but i tink agreeing to a relationship changes certain things.. no?

oh well... guess it's always easier to take things easy. "dun let it affect u!" everyone says. can it really be done?
"jus ignore it!" often heard? can this be done either?
perhaps so for some. i can be one of the some!
i have a great book that i must recommend everyone. own it since sec sch..
it's called: 'Don't Sweat The Small Stuff... and it's all the small stuff'
this book really helps by giving u simple ways to keep the little things from taking over your life!
anyone wanna borrow? let me noe ya...
perhaps i shud re-read dis book soon.